Separating your orgasm from your ejaculation

If you are having difficulty separating your orgasm from your ejaculation, you can begin drawing the sexual energy up your spine before you orgasm. According to the Tao, the real key to whole-body pleasure and healing is the circulation of this sexual energy through the Microcosmic Orbit. Once you start drawing sexual energy up, you may discover that you have "orgasmic" feelings in your brain or in other parts of your body or in your entire body. Voluntarily squeezing your PC muscle around your prostate will also help you develop sensitivity in your pelvis and control the contractile-phase orgasms that cause your prostate to contract in pleasurable involuntary spasms. When you do crest over into ejaculation, which you will do many times while you are learning – and even occasionally afterward – don’t get frustrated or disappointed. Enjoy the pleasurable contractions of your penis that accompany ejaculation and realize that there is always another opportunity to experience more peaks later. Remember, the practice takes time and intimacy, with yourself and with your partner.