So we’ve already established that showering is an important part of
cunnilingus. It does two things – it makes the woman feel fresher and more
comfortable with her body and it helps a man to enjoy her light, natural
scent without feeling overpowered. Some couples more comfortable with
each other may elect not to shower directly beforehand while others may
consider it a rigorous part of the routine. Whichever you and your partner
decide on is up to you – just make sure it is something that will make you
both interested in and receptive to cunnilingus. Now is a great time to discuss pubic hair. Naturally, even if everything
down there is clean, an overgrown forest is probably not the best venue for
a cunnilingus session. Not to say that the vulva has to be completely bare
either. This is another aspect of cunnilingus that must be discussed with
your partner beforehand if you’re both going to enjoy it. If your partner
feels that being too bare and exposed with very little or no pubic hair on her
vulva is uncomfortable, she will not be receptive to cunnilingus and may be
too preoccupied worrying about her lack of hair to enjoy it. Similarly, a man
that is choking on massive amounts of pubic hair will not find cunnilingus
enjoyable either. One thing that is important to note here is that an
overgrowth of pubic hair will actually impede a woman’s ability to feel a
warm, wet tongue on her vulva to the fullest extent. A good trim (or shave
if she desires) is an excellent way to open up her vulva so that she can
experience more of your efforts during cunnilingus. If your partner is apprehensive about shaving her pubic hair, she can
certainly try trimming it closely to the skin. Surprisingly, a good tool to use
for this job is a man’s electric shaver. She can experiment with different
lengths to find which one suits her best. She may find that pubic hair
closely shorn to the skin is more comfortable and may give her a light, airy
and clean feeling. Something for her to remember – many women shave
their pubic hair for the same reason they shave their armpits. Sweat sticks
to thick, long hair and will begin to collect bacteria. Unfortunately, when
this happens, a pungent and sometimes unpleasant odor will arise. For
many women, keeping their pubic hair under control has become part of
the daily beauty routine, as with the underarms.
For those who would like to shave, there are many options. She can shave
all her pubic hair off, or she can leave a small patch (sometimes called a
“landing strip”) on the mons pubis. Shaving can sometimes be
uncomfortable when it grows back, just like with shaving any other part of
the body. Shaving bumps can occur and it can be itchy when growing
back. Shaving, if done properly, however, can become a simple job. Here
are some great tips if your lady chooses to shave: Soak in a warm bath for a few minutes before shaving to soften
the hairs.
; Conditioner can also be used on the hair to soften it – leave it
on for several minutes.
; Trim any long hair with scissors (or an electric shaver) before
starting
; Use disposable safety razors – never use a straight blade!
; Use your hands to manipulate skin to stretch it out before
shaving it
; Use hypoallergenic, unscented soaps, shaving creams and
lotions. It will cut down on irritation later.
; Don’t use powder unless it’s cornstarch – studies show that talc
leads to cervical cancer.
; Use a mirror – a hand mirror works well. It’s easier if you can
see what you’re doing!
; Over-the-counter cortisone cream can help razor burn should it
arise. First, let’s establish one thing – if your partner is prone to ingrown hairs,
waxing is not for her! Waxing will sometimes make the hair grow back
inwards and that can be very painful. If she usually doesn’t get ingrown
hairs, then she may want to consider waxing in lieu of shaving if keeping
her pubic hair to a minimum is more comfortable for both her and you. The
wax itself can be painful as well – think about ripping hundreds of thick,
curly hairs out all at once…ouch! If it’s so painful, why does anybody get a
wax?
Usually, waxing only lasts a few minutes (thank goodness) and it makes for
very silky, smooth skin for about four to six weeks. Waxing eliminates
shaving hassles (to maintain smoothness, a woman has to shave her vulva
every two to three days, depending on the rate of hair growth), but it can
also be somewhat expensive. She can try waxing at home, but she will
usually end up frustrated and without the desired results. Waxing in the
area of the vulva is best left to a professional.
There are a couple of different types of waxing – there’s a bikini wax and of
course, a Brazilian wax. We’re going to be straightforward here – a bikini
wax doesn’t really do the job unless the only thing your partner is going to
be wearing is a bikini. This type of wax is designed for women that have
pubic hair in excess, meaning that some (or most) grows outside of areas that would normally be covered by a bikini. Since she’s not going to be
wearing a bikini during cunnilingus, we’re going to recommend going with a
Brazilian wax. But be careful – a Brazilian wax is not for the faint of heart!
Your partner will be required to bare it all (and by all, we mean quite
possibly more than her gynecologist will see) so if she’s not comfortable
with that idea (or her body), don’t send her to the salon. She will come
back in no mood for cunnilingus, that’s for sure!
This is probably something you want to discuss with your partner first,
considering it is her body. She may be up for the idea, or she may be
turned off by the entire idea itself. A couple things that will help if she’s
considering getting a wax – find a reputable salon. Most women that are a
little apprehensive at first will relax once they realize they’re in the hands of
professionals and not some guy that just wants a peek. Most females will
be more comfortable with other females doing the waxing, so make sure
you send her to a female waxer.
If she does decide to go for a Brazilian wax, ask her if she wants you to
drive her to the salon and back or if she’d like to go alone. Respect her
boundaries during this time, because waxing definitely isn’t a comfortable
way to remove pubic hair. Whatever you do, don’t suggest cunnilingus or
intercourse that evening (unless she does first) because she will most likely
be very sore, swollen and irritated. It is best to wait until the next night. Make Sure You’re Shaven Too!
Remember how we said that it takes two to get ready for a pleasurable
session of cunnilingus? While her vulva may be smoother than a baby’s
bottom, if you’ve got a five o’clock shadow, she’s still not going to have any
fun. Stubble or thick hairs are painful during cunnilingus (especially if they
irritate a sensitive clitoris) and can even impede orgasm. Women like to
call this “beard burn” and it is as uncomfortable as it sounds. If you prefer
not to shave or are growing out a beard, you can wrap a small towel around
your chin to help cut down on the abrasion. Just make sure the towel isn’t
a regular bath size towel – doubled up, the only thing she’s going to feel is
that towel, not your tongue or anything else on your face. A kitchen towel
does nicely. If you can, however, manage a freshly shaven face before a
cunnilingus session, your partner will be grateful and you will reap the
rewards.
cunnilingus. It does two things – it makes the woman feel fresher and more
comfortable with her body and it helps a man to enjoy her light, natural
scent without feeling overpowered. Some couples more comfortable with
each other may elect not to shower directly beforehand while others may
consider it a rigorous part of the routine. Whichever you and your partner
decide on is up to you – just make sure it is something that will make you
both interested in and receptive to cunnilingus. Now is a great time to discuss pubic hair. Naturally, even if everything
down there is clean, an overgrown forest is probably not the best venue for
a cunnilingus session. Not to say that the vulva has to be completely bare
either. This is another aspect of cunnilingus that must be discussed with
your partner beforehand if you’re both going to enjoy it. If your partner
feels that being too bare and exposed with very little or no pubic hair on her
vulva is uncomfortable, she will not be receptive to cunnilingus and may be
too preoccupied worrying about her lack of hair to enjoy it. Similarly, a man
that is choking on massive amounts of pubic hair will not find cunnilingus
enjoyable either. One thing that is important to note here is that an
overgrowth of pubic hair will actually impede a woman’s ability to feel a
warm, wet tongue on her vulva to the fullest extent. A good trim (or shave
if she desires) is an excellent way to open up her vulva so that she can
experience more of your efforts during cunnilingus. If your partner is apprehensive about shaving her pubic hair, she can
certainly try trimming it closely to the skin. Surprisingly, a good tool to use
for this job is a man’s electric shaver. She can experiment with different
lengths to find which one suits her best. She may find that pubic hair
closely shorn to the skin is more comfortable and may give her a light, airy
and clean feeling. Something for her to remember – many women shave
their pubic hair for the same reason they shave their armpits. Sweat sticks
to thick, long hair and will begin to collect bacteria. Unfortunately, when
this happens, a pungent and sometimes unpleasant odor will arise. For
many women, keeping their pubic hair under control has become part of
the daily beauty routine, as with the underarms.
For those who would like to shave, there are many options. She can shave
all her pubic hair off, or she can leave a small patch (sometimes called a
“landing strip”) on the mons pubis. Shaving can sometimes be
uncomfortable when it grows back, just like with shaving any other part of
the body. Shaving bumps can occur and it can be itchy when growing
back. Shaving, if done properly, however, can become a simple job. Here
are some great tips if your lady chooses to shave: Soak in a warm bath for a few minutes before shaving to soften
the hairs.
; Conditioner can also be used on the hair to soften it – leave it
on for several minutes.
; Trim any long hair with scissors (or an electric shaver) before
starting
; Use disposable safety razors – never use a straight blade!
; Use your hands to manipulate skin to stretch it out before
shaving it
; Use hypoallergenic, unscented soaps, shaving creams and
lotions. It will cut down on irritation later.
; Don’t use powder unless it’s cornstarch – studies show that talc
leads to cervical cancer.
; Use a mirror – a hand mirror works well. It’s easier if you can
see what you’re doing!
; Over-the-counter cortisone cream can help razor burn should it
arise. First, let’s establish one thing – if your partner is prone to ingrown hairs,
waxing is not for her! Waxing will sometimes make the hair grow back
inwards and that can be very painful. If she usually doesn’t get ingrown
hairs, then she may want to consider waxing in lieu of shaving if keeping
her pubic hair to a minimum is more comfortable for both her and you. The
wax itself can be painful as well – think about ripping hundreds of thick,
curly hairs out all at once…ouch! If it’s so painful, why does anybody get a
wax?
Usually, waxing only lasts a few minutes (thank goodness) and it makes for
very silky, smooth skin for about four to six weeks. Waxing eliminates
shaving hassles (to maintain smoothness, a woman has to shave her vulva
every two to three days, depending on the rate of hair growth), but it can
also be somewhat expensive. She can try waxing at home, but she will
usually end up frustrated and without the desired results. Waxing in the
area of the vulva is best left to a professional.
There are a couple of different types of waxing – there’s a bikini wax and of
course, a Brazilian wax. We’re going to be straightforward here – a bikini
wax doesn’t really do the job unless the only thing your partner is going to
be wearing is a bikini. This type of wax is designed for women that have
pubic hair in excess, meaning that some (or most) grows outside of areas that would normally be covered by a bikini. Since she’s not going to be
wearing a bikini during cunnilingus, we’re going to recommend going with a
Brazilian wax. But be careful – a Brazilian wax is not for the faint of heart!
Your partner will be required to bare it all (and by all, we mean quite
possibly more than her gynecologist will see) so if she’s not comfortable
with that idea (or her body), don’t send her to the salon. She will come
back in no mood for cunnilingus, that’s for sure!
This is probably something you want to discuss with your partner first,
considering it is her body. She may be up for the idea, or she may be
turned off by the entire idea itself. A couple things that will help if she’s
considering getting a wax – find a reputable salon. Most women that are a
little apprehensive at first will relax once they realize they’re in the hands of
professionals and not some guy that just wants a peek. Most females will
be more comfortable with other females doing the waxing, so make sure
you send her to a female waxer.
If she does decide to go for a Brazilian wax, ask her if she wants you to
drive her to the salon and back or if she’d like to go alone. Respect her
boundaries during this time, because waxing definitely isn’t a comfortable
way to remove pubic hair. Whatever you do, don’t suggest cunnilingus or
intercourse that evening (unless she does first) because she will most likely
be very sore, swollen and irritated. It is best to wait until the next night. Make Sure You’re Shaven Too!
Remember how we said that it takes two to get ready for a pleasurable
session of cunnilingus? While her vulva may be smoother than a baby’s
bottom, if you’ve got a five o’clock shadow, she’s still not going to have any
fun. Stubble or thick hairs are painful during cunnilingus (especially if they
irritate a sensitive clitoris) and can even impede orgasm. Women like to
call this “beard burn” and it is as uncomfortable as it sounds. If you prefer
not to shave or are growing out a beard, you can wrap a small towel around
your chin to help cut down on the abrasion. Just make sure the towel isn’t
a regular bath size towel – doubled up, the only thing she’s going to feel is
that towel, not your tongue or anything else on your face. A kitchen towel
does nicely. If you can, however, manage a freshly shaven face before a
cunnilingus session, your partner will be grateful and you will reap the
rewards.
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