The next step is to get her body relaxed. If her mind is relaxed but her
muscles are so tight that her legs snap shut every time your head gets to
her knees, you aren’t going to get very far during cunnilingus. Like we said
earlier, a massage will both get her mentally and physically prepared for
cunnilingus. If massage, however, isn’t on the menu tonight, there are a
few other things you can try to get her so relaxed that her legs turn into
butter.
Š A Hot Bath – this is an oldie but goodie. But we don’t mean
draw her bath, plop her in it and go about your business for
thirty minutes until she’s done. We mean light candles, talk to
her and wash her hair for her. Let her know that you are
interested in her! If done properly, a conversation geared
towards her while in a soothing, hot bath will do the same thing
as a massage – kill two birds with one stone and get both her
mind and body relaxed and ready for cunnilingus.
Š A Foot Rub – believe it or not, foot rubs can do even more
magic than a back massage and a hot bath put together. Why?
Studies in reflexology show that pressure points all over the
foot lead directly to specific points in the body. When these
pressure points are activated, the corresponding point in the body becomes relaxed and can promote wellness. A good foot rub will activate all of these points and will relax her entire body. Š Brushing Her Hair – brush it while watching a movie together or braid it for her if her hair is long enough. You can also do variations on this by scratching her scalp or using one of those metal spider-looking head massagers. It will make her spine tingle! This is a great way to get good, relaxing feelings from the top of her head to the bottom of her feet. Š Anything Physically Relaxing – use your imagination. If your idea to get her mentally relaxed is walking around in the mall and window shopping together, then buy her one of those chair massages (or get one together). Some malls even have water massage beds. You can also do something like buying her a manicure or pedicure (or both!) and complimenting her nails when she is finished. Anything that will physically relax her is the ticket to a successful cunnilingus session.
Don’t Forget To Start Slow! A woman that is about to receive cunnilingus must be treated gently and with care, like an object made out of glass. Anything done in haste (unless you are told to!) can ruin a cunnilingus session. Once your partner is mentally and physically relaxed, you can begin making your way down south slowly but surely. This technique will not only show your love for her and her body, it will get her so hot and ready for your tongue on her vulva that she will not be able to stand it any longer and will beg for it! Based on individual circumstances, you can either go extra, extra slow during this stage or you can speed it up a bit without going too fast. Take cues from your partner – she will let you know when she is ready! Before we get too far in the technique section (in fact, we should have introduced it earlier), it is important to note one thing: pornography is an absolutely terrible place to learn how to perform cunnilingus. The pornography industry is not there to maximize a woman’s pleasure. It is there to make money. When cunnilingus is depicted during a pornography film, the man goes straight for the vulva and begins licking the clitoris – there is rarely any kissing, cuddling and if there is breast fondling, there is very little of it. When the man begins licking the clitoris, he doesn’t take any time to explore the rest of her vulva. And even more so, the man must hold his head at an odd angle so the camera can zoom in close – this position does not allow for a woman’s pleasure at all! During a proper cunnilingus session, the only thing one would see is the back of the man’s head – his entire face would be buried between her legs. So if you’ve been watching pornography to learn about cunnilingus or have already employing cunnilingus techniques found in pornographic films, for your partner’s sake, stop now!
pressure points are activated, the corresponding point in the body becomes relaxed and can promote wellness. A good foot rub will activate all of these points and will relax her entire body. Š Brushing Her Hair – brush it while watching a movie together or braid it for her if her hair is long enough. You can also do variations on this by scratching her scalp or using one of those metal spider-looking head massagers. It will make her spine tingle! This is a great way to get good, relaxing feelings from the top of her head to the bottom of her feet. Š Anything Physically Relaxing – use your imagination. If your idea to get her mentally relaxed is walking around in the mall and window shopping together, then buy her one of those chair massages (or get one together). Some malls even have water massage beds. You can also do something like buying her a manicure or pedicure (or both!) and complimenting her nails when she is finished. Anything that will physically relax her is the ticket to a successful cunnilingus session.
Don’t Forget To Start Slow! A woman that is about to receive cunnilingus must be treated gently and with care, like an object made out of glass. Anything done in haste (unless you are told to!) can ruin a cunnilingus session. Once your partner is mentally and physically relaxed, you can begin making your way down south slowly but surely. This technique will not only show your love for her and her body, it will get her so hot and ready for your tongue on her vulva that she will not be able to stand it any longer and will beg for it! Based on individual circumstances, you can either go extra, extra slow during this stage or you can speed it up a bit without going too fast. Take cues from your partner – she will let you know when she is ready! Before we get too far in the technique section (in fact, we should have introduced it earlier), it is important to note one thing: pornography is an absolutely terrible place to learn how to perform cunnilingus. The pornography industry is not there to maximize a woman’s pleasure. It is there to make money. When cunnilingus is depicted during a pornography film, the man goes straight for the vulva and begins licking the clitoris – there is rarely any kissing, cuddling and if there is breast fondling, there is very little of it. When the man begins licking the clitoris, he doesn’t take any time to explore the rest of her vulva. And even more so, the man must hold his head at an odd angle so the camera can zoom in close – this position does not allow for a woman’s pleasure at all! During a proper cunnilingus session, the only thing one would see is the back of the man’s head – his entire face would be buried between her legs. So if you’ve been watching pornography to learn about cunnilingus or have already employing cunnilingus techniques found in pornographic films, for your partner’s sake, stop now!
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