About 70 percent of all women require some clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, perhaps because the pudendal nerve, which goes to the clitoris, has more nerve endings than the pelvic nerve to the vagina. In most lovemaking positions, the man directly stimulates the most sensitive part of his penis, the head, while the woman only indirectly stimulates the most sensitive part of her sexual anatomy, the clitoris.
Encouraging your partner, as we do in this book, to stimulate your clitoris during lovemaking is a clear way to help yourself become more orgasmic. Though it may seem a little awkward at first as he is learning to coordinate the rhythm of his fingers with the rhythm of his hips, it will soon become a smooth and satisfying part of your lovemaking. You can also help him by guiding his hand to where you would like it to be and even using your fingers to press his fingers into your clitoris, which will show him the place and the amount of pressure you like. If you are vaginally orgasmic you may
not need or want clitoral stimulation all the time when you are making love. Your hand can guide your partner’s, depending on what your pleasure calls for.
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