So now we’re getting to the nitty gritty – cunnilingus technique. But wait!
Don’t jump in feet first just yet. There are a couple of things you need to
know before embarking on a cunnilingus session, specifically, how to get a
woman warmed up. Compare a woman to an oven – you can’t bake a
cake unless the oven has been preheated. If your partner hasn’t been
“preheated,” she will not be receptive to cunnilingus at all and your efforts
will most likely be lost. The best you could hope for during a cunnilingus
session in which the woman hasn’t been warmed up first is an orgasm after
a really, really, really long time.
There are two basic things you want to make sure happen before you start
cunnilingus. First, your partner must be mentally in the mood. Then she
must physically be relaxed, comfortable and as a result, receptive. You
can get creative – while old standards work great (and we’ll get into that
here in just a minute) you will also want to take into account your partner’s
preferences and your relationship together. For example, for a woman who
can’t stand to have her feet touched, our suggestion of a foot rub to get her
relaxed isn’t going to go very far, is it? Feel free to come up with your own
ideas – just remember the basics: get her mentally turned on and
physically relaxed. We’re talking about mental differences between men and woman and that is generally considered to
be the biggest one. Specifically, we’re referring to the different ways men
and women get turned on. Men are visual creatures and this is why the
pornography industry brings in billions of dollars per year. Just the sight of
a large pair of soft, bouncy breasts can get a man turned on in a
millisecond. This is not so with women. Very, very rarely a woman is
turned on by something (or someone) she sees. For women, it is mostly
mental. A steamy novel will get her juices flowing before any film or movie
will.
It is time for you to learn to take advantage of this knowledge and apply it to
your cunnilingus technique. Yes, we’d like for you to think of getting her
mentally turned on as part of your technique, so you never forget to do it.
How do you get a woman mentally turned on? Romance. No, don’t cringe!
Men couldn’t care less about romantic dinners, flowers or any of the like but
women can go from zero to hot and horny with these simple gestures. If
you’ve been married for years and a romantic dinner doesn’t seem up your
alley, this is where you can use your imagination. What would be romantic
for the two of you? It can be something like an elaborate gift or a simple
compliment. Most guys can’t grab this stuff off the top off their head
though, so we’ve got a few ideas for you.Massage – with this one, you can kill two birds with one stone. If
you’re not skilled with your hands in that area, book her an
appointment with a professional masseuse. You’ll get the gift-
giving bonus too! Women love massages – not only does it
relax them, it makes their responsibilities melt away and as a
result, they feel loved and cared for.
Š Thoughtful Gifts – these can be large or small, but they must
be thoughtful, not generic! Getting her that new can opener
(even though she’s complained about the old one for weeks
and desperately needs a new one) will not do the job here! So
let’s make a rule of thumb – if you’re getting her a gift, don’t get
anything that can even remotely be construed as practical!
Although it may seem a waste of money to you, it makes your
partner feel truly special. Jewelry, Bath & Body Works goodies,
comfortable sleepwear, the delicious perfume she’s been
eyeing flowers, etc. are all great ideas. If you do choose to get
her flowers, don’t get her a plant! Even though flowers will die
in a few days, a plant is just another thing she’ll have to take
care of and in time will become a hassle (unless she absolutely
loves plants). Dinner – whether you take her out, bring dinner home or cook
for her, letting her forget about what to put on the table when
she gets home from work can do wonders for her sexual mood! Make an effort to eat with her at the dinner table if this is
something you don’t normally do – the idea here is to spend
time with her and enjoy being in her presence during an every
day activity. You can also turn this idea into anything, such as
going bowling together, taking a walk in a nearby park or just a
quiet drive to the ice cream parlor on a hot summer evening.
Your time is valuable to her and is probably better than any gift
you could give.
Š Chores – believe it or not, chores are to women what lingerie is
to men. Nothing will get a woman more instantly turned on and
inclined toward her partner than if he were to do a few chores
without being asked! Yes, we said without being asked. It will
only take a few minutes of your time (such as taking out the
trash or doing the dishes) but here again; the idea is to lighten
your lady’s load. In doing so, she will not have much on her
mind except what you’ll be doing to her next.
Š Be Original – if you’re unsure about how to mentally get her in
the mood, just follow this simple rule: break her out of her daily
routine. It is that daily grind that gets women so worn down that
they are turned off or “not in the mood.” If you can lessen that
or break her out of it (even for a short time), you will most likely
succeed in getting her mentally turned on.
Don’t jump in feet first just yet. There are a couple of things you need to
know before embarking on a cunnilingus session, specifically, how to get a
woman warmed up. Compare a woman to an oven – you can’t bake a
cake unless the oven has been preheated. If your partner hasn’t been
“preheated,” she will not be receptive to cunnilingus at all and your efforts
will most likely be lost. The best you could hope for during a cunnilingus
session in which the woman hasn’t been warmed up first is an orgasm after
a really, really, really long time.
There are two basic things you want to make sure happen before you start
cunnilingus. First, your partner must be mentally in the mood. Then she
must physically be relaxed, comfortable and as a result, receptive. You
can get creative – while old standards work great (and we’ll get into that
here in just a minute) you will also want to take into account your partner’s
preferences and your relationship together. For example, for a woman who
can’t stand to have her feet touched, our suggestion of a foot rub to get her
relaxed isn’t going to go very far, is it? Feel free to come up with your own
ideas – just remember the basics: get her mentally turned on and
physically relaxed. We’re talking about mental differences between men and woman and that is generally considered to
be the biggest one. Specifically, we’re referring to the different ways men
and women get turned on. Men are visual creatures and this is why the
pornography industry brings in billions of dollars per year. Just the sight of
a large pair of soft, bouncy breasts can get a man turned on in a
millisecond. This is not so with women. Very, very rarely a woman is
turned on by something (or someone) she sees. For women, it is mostly
mental. A steamy novel will get her juices flowing before any film or movie
will.
It is time for you to learn to take advantage of this knowledge and apply it to
your cunnilingus technique. Yes, we’d like for you to think of getting her
mentally turned on as part of your technique, so you never forget to do it.
How do you get a woman mentally turned on? Romance. No, don’t cringe!
Men couldn’t care less about romantic dinners, flowers or any of the like but
women can go from zero to hot and horny with these simple gestures. If
you’ve been married for years and a romantic dinner doesn’t seem up your
alley, this is where you can use your imagination. What would be romantic
for the two of you? It can be something like an elaborate gift or a simple
compliment. Most guys can’t grab this stuff off the top off their head
though, so we’ve got a few ideas for you.Massage – with this one, you can kill two birds with one stone. If
you’re not skilled with your hands in that area, book her an
appointment with a professional masseuse. You’ll get the gift-
giving bonus too! Women love massages – not only does it
relax them, it makes their responsibilities melt away and as a
result, they feel loved and cared for.
Š Thoughtful Gifts – these can be large or small, but they must
be thoughtful, not generic! Getting her that new can opener
(even though she’s complained about the old one for weeks
and desperately needs a new one) will not do the job here! So
let’s make a rule of thumb – if you’re getting her a gift, don’t get
anything that can even remotely be construed as practical!
Although it may seem a waste of money to you, it makes your
partner feel truly special. Jewelry, Bath & Body Works goodies,
comfortable sleepwear, the delicious perfume she’s been
eyeing flowers, etc. are all great ideas. If you do choose to get
her flowers, don’t get her a plant! Even though flowers will die
in a few days, a plant is just another thing she’ll have to take
care of and in time will become a hassle (unless she absolutely
loves plants). Dinner – whether you take her out, bring dinner home or cook
for her, letting her forget about what to put on the table when
she gets home from work can do wonders for her sexual mood! Make an effort to eat with her at the dinner table if this is
something you don’t normally do – the idea here is to spend
time with her and enjoy being in her presence during an every
day activity. You can also turn this idea into anything, such as
going bowling together, taking a walk in a nearby park or just a
quiet drive to the ice cream parlor on a hot summer evening.
Your time is valuable to her and is probably better than any gift
you could give.
Š Chores – believe it or not, chores are to women what lingerie is
to men. Nothing will get a woman more instantly turned on and
inclined toward her partner than if he were to do a few chores
without being asked! Yes, we said without being asked. It will
only take a few minutes of your time (such as taking out the
trash or doing the dishes) but here again; the idea is to lighten
your lady’s load. In doing so, she will not have much on her
mind except what you’ll be doing to her next.
Š Be Original – if you’re unsure about how to mentally get her in
the mood, just follow this simple rule: break her out of her daily
routine. It is that daily grind that gets women so worn down that
they are turned off or “not in the mood.” If you can lessen that
or break her out of it (even for a short time), you will most likely
succeed in getting her mentally turned on.
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