SOFT ENTRY

1. Your partner must be fully lubricated, and you should pleasure her until her fluids are flowing. If necessary, you can use a lubricant on her vagina or your penis or both. 2. It is generally easiest for you to be on top so that gravity helps draw the blood into your penis and so that you have as much freedom to move as possible. 3. Circle your thumb and forefinger around the base of your penis to form a finger ring and squeeze gently to push the blood into the shaft and head. 4. Carefully insert your penis into your partner and begin thrusting, keeping your finger ring around the base of your penis. 5. Focus on the blood and sexual energy that are filling your penis and concentrate on the sensations in your penis. Squeeze your perineum and buttocks to push blood into your genitals. 6. Your partner can help stimulate you by playing with your testicles, perineum, and anus. 7. Adjust the tightness of your finger ring to keep your penis engorged enough for thrusting and then remove your fingers when your penis is sufficiently erect for continued thrusting. 8. Reapply the finger ring if your erection wanes (although you generally won't need to do so