Deep Throat T he golden key to deep throating is you first take him
in as deep as you can and then back off and breathe.
This lets your soft palate and the muscles of your throat
know what’s coming. The defenses go down because the
backstroke says, “This isn’t going to choke, relax!”
When a ship comes into dock, especially when it’s
between two other ships, the captain has to maneuver it
with great care and skill. In no way is it a simple turn;
the ship goes a little left, a little right, gradually coming
forward to its berth. Visualize his penis doing the same
as you draw him into your mouth. The slower the bet-
ter, as you test the glans and the sides of the shaft
against the roof of your mouth and the insides of your
cheeks. You keep breathing evenly, and move him into
port by tiny increments. This is how you’ll deep throat.
Think you can’t? You can, so snap out of it!
When you deep throat, show a lot of tongue.27
The Aerial Impale T his is your Cirque du Soleil number. You impale on
his lingam without touching him with your hands.
It’s a rhythmic, modified pushup, whose mood borrows a
little from S&M. Your weight during these moves is on
your palms at either side of his hips. The Aerial Impale is
about sweet torture of withholding and denial, and the
theory that less is more.
The Aerial Impale is great when a guy is sore or tired
—after sports, a day’s work, or lovemaking. For instance,
I recommend the Aerial Impale as a second round of
great sex! You’ve heard men claim they used to be able to
have intercourse four times a night, now it’s twice at best.
Once satisfies him completely, but he loves it if you whet
his appetite for more. If you can turn his postcoital lan-
guor to renewed desire, he’ll think you’re insatiable—
which he’ll find thrilling! To take him from languidly
lying there passively to totally aroused is heady pleasure
for you both.Sometimes dark is nice for sex, but sometimes light
can be better. He’ll like to look down and see what’s hap-
pening when you are doing the Aerial Impale.
But wait a minute! This advanced move is most fun
for both of you if he actually comes. The Aerial Impale
takes stamina, and you may want to start his motor by
different means before you go airborne. Do this any way
you want, but here’s a wily way that anticipates the no
hands rule.
To get him partly there, you can begin on your back,
with his penis over you. You catch his penis in your
mouth. He doesn’t stuff it in your mouth! It’s not, you
see, goal-oriented to an orgasm. The Aerial Impale is a
playful teaser, so he dangles and sways his apparatus over
your face.
You don’t touch with your hands; above all remember
this! To get your vagina pumped, grip and release the bed
linens again and again. By now he’s rigid. Switch so he’s
the one lying down. Are you ready? Onward to the Aerial.
k You’re on top, looking somewhere in the region of
his belly button. Now dip and lick his skin (e.g., the
stripe of hair down his abdomen) and see if he’s
receptive. Lick down to his navel. Wake him up by
offering him the bud of a nipple; don’t let him pull
you down though. If he tries anything, place his
hands resolutely at his sides and push him down on
ultimate guide to oral sex
114the bed if he pushes up. (This whole movement
feigns a power struggle, borrowing heat from sado-
masochism without the weird self-hatred.)
k Toy with the head of his penis, then roll it in your
mouth. Now, quickly take him into your mouth as if
it were a tight sheath. His shaft will fill and throb if
it wasn’t altogether stiff already. He’ll cooperate to
the limit!
k The movement you make that’s unique to the Aerial
is as follows: As you rest on your knees, putting the
weight on your palms and doing the modified pushup,
lean with your whole trunk. You are levering from
your hips. Do not bob your head. Think of yourself as
lying on a seesaw and going up and down. Find a bold
rhythm. Breathe.
k No matter how long it takes, you anoint him. If you
breathe naturally from the diaphragm and lean into it,
you won’t have to stop due to exhaustion.
k He’s lying back quietly. More often than not, he
closes his eyes and moves his head from side to side.
It’s not easy to read how close he is to orgasm. It may
surprise you when his seed spurts. There may not be
more than an eighth of a teaspoon if he is climaxing
for a second time. In any case, drain him of every drop.
the aerial impale
11528
Endless Dance H is kisses burn through your body. Sometimes he
bores into you, other times he holds out his penis to
do as you wish. You and he ride the merry-go-round of
sex in tandem, as you jump from one jeweled saddle to
another.
Some encounters are what they are, to relax, relieve
tension, or reconnect; but some are about lots of S-E-X.
When you love, you can feel the energy flowing through
the two of you. You are two surfers, and it may be you
who has the vision and sees the perfect wave. If so, you
initiate, starting by pulling his shoulders down as if to say,
“Start lower,” if he positions himself for intercourse.
You will have sex two, three, four times a night, and
then wake up unsure whether it actually happened. Extend
what might be simple intercourse, lovely but blending into
many other encounters, into a night to remember.
The idea is to get into a steady, highly eroticized con-
dition where your mind and body experience sensations
of exquisite pleasure, or multiple orgasms (depending onyour physical makeup) that increase in intensity as you
move through the repertoire.
First, masturbate each other. Pretend it’s impossible to
do more or do it from an angle or situation (like you on the
dining table and him standing) where you literally can’t do
more. Then have incomplete intercourse. (He enters you
with shallow thrusts and leaves your clitoris high and dry.)
Incomplete oral sex is next, where you lick and knead all
around the penis but overlook the tip. When you finish
off, the effect is thunderous and peaceful and sweet. In
short, an out-of-body experience for each of you.
Whatever figures you do in the dance, you have only
to remember this: no hesitancy! Have you ever been
working out on an elliptical machine and paused, only to
find the current program cut off? A man’s body will do
that if you are hesitant. Be self-confident, stay in the
zone, and his desire and performance will stay focused.
In the endless dance, you beat a steady sexual rhythm.
The intensity waxes and wanes. At one point he may
simply lie on you with his full weight, or you may cat
walk on him, spread his thighs, and feast on him with
your eyes. These are also movements in the dance. But
you know you’re not stopping there! You fulfill his fan-
tasies because he senses you’re going to do “it all,” and
never to the point of depletion until the last bead of
pleasure is sucked forth.
ultimate guide to oral sex
11829
It’s Hot to Change
Posture Midway I t’s resistance that causes the struck match to light.
There are so many ways to arrange our bodies. When
you go at him from a different angle, he experiences that
in your mouth. Often you start oral sex when he is lying
down. You may begin at his side, and then nudge his legs
apart and position yourself between them, under him. Or
you begin where he is seated, and after he’s hot, embrace
his hips and buttocks until he reclines. If you are lying on
your back with your head off the bed, flip over!
The change in position is very symbolic of the fluidity
of sexual congress and the mutability of the man and
woman’s roles. Also, whereas you could just find the most
comfortable angle or pose and stay with it, you switch
because you are overcoming the barrier between you and
your lover. You are two individuals in the archetypal
struggle to merge.
The glory of intercourse comes from the biological
imperative. Even if you are on birth control pills or haveultimate guide to oral sex
120
passed childbearing years, you are involved in an act that
relates to procreation. Contrastingly, oral sex is sheer
intimacy. Two personalities intermingle as he trusts and
overcomes his reservations about giving up control and
you give a gift. He could knock your breath out and you
could mutilate him—heaven forbid! In this risky situa-
tion, the two of you reaffirm your ties. It happens in a
flash that, unlike intercourse, can be drawn out so the of
you two feel like a statue carved of one block of stone.
I thought sex was about an itch, but learned it’s about
giving. I thought it was about power—who gets what
now—but discovered the best sex is a celebration. I
thought it was fixed, but it cannot be. A long-term rela-
tionship has ups and downs and there is no way that one
posture can express all these emotional facets.
If you and your partner change position at half-time,
it will get much better the hundredth time you give him
oral sex. If you freeze the action, you’ll bore yourselves
and miss out on sexual adventure. You don’t need to use
props and have sex in a telephone booth to have these
adventures either. Just the orientation to shift your body
as you pleasure him with your mouth is quite enough.30
Oral Sex for a Gymnast:
A 2,000-Year-Old Trick T his tip is based on the exercise of an elite association
of royal wrestlers in the court of an empire that will
remain nameless.
As soon as oral sex has begun, the man goes from
lying on his back into a sudden shoulder stand. This
positions the woman over his genitals, and she
continues to fellate him with one large difference: she
doesn’t touch him. That is, only her mouth touches his
genitals—no play of hands. The physiological grounds
for this position are that it creates a tension in his upper
thighs. It quickly makes him throb and continues to
drive him wild as long as his legs “V.” He will sway as you
suck on him, but each time he does he has to right
himself so his legs are completely open overhead, which
intensifies the sensations.
A modification is for him to lie on his back and hold
the outsides of his feet with his hands. Keeping his feetdirectly over his knees, he pulls his legs down with his
arms. Again she gives him oral sex with mouth to organ
only. In this position, he can roll around on his spine so
she has to chase his root. Or, the game can be for him to
stay utterly still while he wants to writhe in pleasure. For
a prop, either try it with a lit candle on his solar plexus
or have him pull down with a belt over his soles (instead
of with his arms). On the belt is placed a plate with the
lit candle.
However you execute the Gymnast’s position, the
tautness in his upper thighs beg for your attention. He’s
in a state of physical surrender. His balls are swinging in
the air. He’s supercharged with desire.
in as deep as you can and then back off and breathe.
This lets your soft palate and the muscles of your throat
know what’s coming. The defenses go down because the
backstroke says, “This isn’t going to choke, relax!”
When a ship comes into dock, especially when it’s
between two other ships, the captain has to maneuver it
with great care and skill. In no way is it a simple turn;
the ship goes a little left, a little right, gradually coming
forward to its berth. Visualize his penis doing the same
as you draw him into your mouth. The slower the bet-
ter, as you test the glans and the sides of the shaft
against the roof of your mouth and the insides of your
cheeks. You keep breathing evenly, and move him into
port by tiny increments. This is how you’ll deep throat.
Think you can’t? You can, so snap out of it!
When you deep throat, show a lot of tongue.27
The Aerial Impale T his is your Cirque du Soleil number. You impale on
his lingam without touching him with your hands.
It’s a rhythmic, modified pushup, whose mood borrows a
little from S&M. Your weight during these moves is on
your palms at either side of his hips. The Aerial Impale is
about sweet torture of withholding and denial, and the
theory that less is more.
The Aerial Impale is great when a guy is sore or tired
—after sports, a day’s work, or lovemaking. For instance,
I recommend the Aerial Impale as a second round of
great sex! You’ve heard men claim they used to be able to
have intercourse four times a night, now it’s twice at best.
Once satisfies him completely, but he loves it if you whet
his appetite for more. If you can turn his postcoital lan-
guor to renewed desire, he’ll think you’re insatiable—
which he’ll find thrilling! To take him from languidly
lying there passively to totally aroused is heady pleasure
for you both.Sometimes dark is nice for sex, but sometimes light
can be better. He’ll like to look down and see what’s hap-
pening when you are doing the Aerial Impale.
But wait a minute! This advanced move is most fun
for both of you if he actually comes. The Aerial Impale
takes stamina, and you may want to start his motor by
different means before you go airborne. Do this any way
you want, but here’s a wily way that anticipates the no
hands rule.
To get him partly there, you can begin on your back,
with his penis over you. You catch his penis in your
mouth. He doesn’t stuff it in your mouth! It’s not, you
see, goal-oriented to an orgasm. The Aerial Impale is a
playful teaser, so he dangles and sways his apparatus over
your face.
You don’t touch with your hands; above all remember
this! To get your vagina pumped, grip and release the bed
linens again and again. By now he’s rigid. Switch so he’s
the one lying down. Are you ready? Onward to the Aerial.
k You’re on top, looking somewhere in the region of
his belly button. Now dip and lick his skin (e.g., the
stripe of hair down his abdomen) and see if he’s
receptive. Lick down to his navel. Wake him up by
offering him the bud of a nipple; don’t let him pull
you down though. If he tries anything, place his
hands resolutely at his sides and push him down on
ultimate guide to oral sex
114the bed if he pushes up. (This whole movement
feigns a power struggle, borrowing heat from sado-
masochism without the weird self-hatred.)
k Toy with the head of his penis, then roll it in your
mouth. Now, quickly take him into your mouth as if
it were a tight sheath. His shaft will fill and throb if
it wasn’t altogether stiff already. He’ll cooperate to
the limit!
k The movement you make that’s unique to the Aerial
is as follows: As you rest on your knees, putting the
weight on your palms and doing the modified pushup,
lean with your whole trunk. You are levering from
your hips. Do not bob your head. Think of yourself as
lying on a seesaw and going up and down. Find a bold
rhythm. Breathe.
k No matter how long it takes, you anoint him. If you
breathe naturally from the diaphragm and lean into it,
you won’t have to stop due to exhaustion.
k He’s lying back quietly. More often than not, he
closes his eyes and moves his head from side to side.
It’s not easy to read how close he is to orgasm. It may
surprise you when his seed spurts. There may not be
more than an eighth of a teaspoon if he is climaxing
for a second time. In any case, drain him of every drop.
the aerial impale
11528
Endless Dance H is kisses burn through your body. Sometimes he
bores into you, other times he holds out his penis to
do as you wish. You and he ride the merry-go-round of
sex in tandem, as you jump from one jeweled saddle to
another.
Some encounters are what they are, to relax, relieve
tension, or reconnect; but some are about lots of S-E-X.
When you love, you can feel the energy flowing through
the two of you. You are two surfers, and it may be you
who has the vision and sees the perfect wave. If so, you
initiate, starting by pulling his shoulders down as if to say,
“Start lower,” if he positions himself for intercourse.
You will have sex two, three, four times a night, and
then wake up unsure whether it actually happened. Extend
what might be simple intercourse, lovely but blending into
many other encounters, into a night to remember.
The idea is to get into a steady, highly eroticized con-
dition where your mind and body experience sensations
of exquisite pleasure, or multiple orgasms (depending onyour physical makeup) that increase in intensity as you
move through the repertoire.
First, masturbate each other. Pretend it’s impossible to
do more or do it from an angle or situation (like you on the
dining table and him standing) where you literally can’t do
more. Then have incomplete intercourse. (He enters you
with shallow thrusts and leaves your clitoris high and dry.)
Incomplete oral sex is next, where you lick and knead all
around the penis but overlook the tip. When you finish
off, the effect is thunderous and peaceful and sweet. In
short, an out-of-body experience for each of you.
Whatever figures you do in the dance, you have only
to remember this: no hesitancy! Have you ever been
working out on an elliptical machine and paused, only to
find the current program cut off? A man’s body will do
that if you are hesitant. Be self-confident, stay in the
zone, and his desire and performance will stay focused.
In the endless dance, you beat a steady sexual rhythm.
The intensity waxes and wanes. At one point he may
simply lie on you with his full weight, or you may cat
walk on him, spread his thighs, and feast on him with
your eyes. These are also movements in the dance. But
you know you’re not stopping there! You fulfill his fan-
tasies because he senses you’re going to do “it all,” and
never to the point of depletion until the last bead of
pleasure is sucked forth.
ultimate guide to oral sex
11829
It’s Hot to Change
Posture Midway I t’s resistance that causes the struck match to light.
There are so many ways to arrange our bodies. When
you go at him from a different angle, he experiences that
in your mouth. Often you start oral sex when he is lying
down. You may begin at his side, and then nudge his legs
apart and position yourself between them, under him. Or
you begin where he is seated, and after he’s hot, embrace
his hips and buttocks until he reclines. If you are lying on
your back with your head off the bed, flip over!
The change in position is very symbolic of the fluidity
of sexual congress and the mutability of the man and
woman’s roles. Also, whereas you could just find the most
comfortable angle or pose and stay with it, you switch
because you are overcoming the barrier between you and
your lover. You are two individuals in the archetypal
struggle to merge.
The glory of intercourse comes from the biological
imperative. Even if you are on birth control pills or haveultimate guide to oral sex
120
passed childbearing years, you are involved in an act that
relates to procreation. Contrastingly, oral sex is sheer
intimacy. Two personalities intermingle as he trusts and
overcomes his reservations about giving up control and
you give a gift. He could knock your breath out and you
could mutilate him—heaven forbid! In this risky situa-
tion, the two of you reaffirm your ties. It happens in a
flash that, unlike intercourse, can be drawn out so the of
you two feel like a statue carved of one block of stone.
I thought sex was about an itch, but learned it’s about
giving. I thought it was about power—who gets what
now—but discovered the best sex is a celebration. I
thought it was fixed, but it cannot be. A long-term rela-
tionship has ups and downs and there is no way that one
posture can express all these emotional facets.
If you and your partner change position at half-time,
it will get much better the hundredth time you give him
oral sex. If you freeze the action, you’ll bore yourselves
and miss out on sexual adventure. You don’t need to use
props and have sex in a telephone booth to have these
adventures either. Just the orientation to shift your body
as you pleasure him with your mouth is quite enough.30
Oral Sex for a Gymnast:
A 2,000-Year-Old Trick T his tip is based on the exercise of an elite association
of royal wrestlers in the court of an empire that will
remain nameless.
As soon as oral sex has begun, the man goes from
lying on his back into a sudden shoulder stand. This
positions the woman over his genitals, and she
continues to fellate him with one large difference: she
doesn’t touch him. That is, only her mouth touches his
genitals—no play of hands. The physiological grounds
for this position are that it creates a tension in his upper
thighs. It quickly makes him throb and continues to
drive him wild as long as his legs “V.” He will sway as you
suck on him, but each time he does he has to right
himself so his legs are completely open overhead, which
intensifies the sensations.
A modification is for him to lie on his back and hold
the outsides of his feet with his hands. Keeping his feetdirectly over his knees, he pulls his legs down with his
arms. Again she gives him oral sex with mouth to organ
only. In this position, he can roll around on his spine so
she has to chase his root. Or, the game can be for him to
stay utterly still while he wants to writhe in pleasure. For
a prop, either try it with a lit candle on his solar plexus
or have him pull down with a belt over his soles (instead
of with his arms). On the belt is placed a plate with the
lit candle.
However you execute the Gymnast’s position, the
tautness in his upper thighs beg for your attention. He’s
in a state of physical surrender. His balls are swinging in
the air. He’s supercharged with desire.
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